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Comparing yourself to others financially leads to unhappiness from "summary" of The Psychology of Money by Melody Jefferson,Morgan Housel
It's easy to fall into the trap of comparing your financial situation to that of others. Social media, advertising, and even conversations with friends and family can make you feel like you're not measuring up. But the truth is, comparing yourself to others financially is a surefire way to feel discontented and unhappy. When you constantly measure your wealth against others, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. There will always be someone who has more money, a bigger house, a nicer car. And when you fixate on what you don't have, it's easy to lose sight of what you do have. This perpetual cycle of comparison can lead to feelings of inadequacy and envy, robbing you of the joy and contentment that come from appreciating your own financial situation. Moreover, comparing yourself to others financially is a futile exercise. Everyone's financial journey is unique, shaped by a multitude of factors such as upbringing, education, career choices, and luck. Trying to measure your success against someone else's is like comparing apples to oranges – it simply doesn't make sense. What works for one person may not work for another, and what brings one person happiness may not bring you the same fulfillment. Instead of looking outward for validation and approval, it's important to turn inward and focus on what truly matters to you. Define your own financial goals, values, and priorities, and strive to align your actions with them. By staying true to yourself and your objectives, you can cultivate a sense of purpose and satisfaction that is independent of external comparisons.- Financial success is a deeply personal and subjective concept. It's not about how much money you have compared to others, but rather how well you manage your resources to meet your needs and aspirations. By shifting your focus from external benchmarks to internal fulfillment, you can free yourself from the shackles of comparison and pave your own path to financial well-being and happiness.
