Love builds commitment from "summary" of The Psychology of Love by Robert J. Sternberg,Michael L. Barnes
Commitment is an important part of any relationship, and loving someone can help to solidify that commitment. Love can be used as a bridge between two people to bring them closer together and create a lasting bond.- People in a committed relationship often love each other and work hard to maintain the connection, even during difficult times. This is because having strong feelings of love can help ensure commitment.
- Those with deep feelings of affection for someone else tend to put a lot of effort into making the relationship work. They take they time to listen, communicate well, and accept one another's flaws.
- When two people strongly care for each other, they are more likely to build trust between them. This helps them to stay together and face whatever life throws their way.
- People who are devoted to their partner find it easier when dealing with difficulties and they feel secure that their partner will be there no matter what. These emotions make it much easier to create and nurture a long-lasting bond.
- Even simple gestures become meaningful expressions of commitment when they come from somebody you love. A smile, a hug or just being there for your special person helps foster an overall sense of security.
- Love has the power to bring out the best in both partners. It positively influences their behaviour and thinking which leads to greater respect and devotion towards their significant other.
- Creating honest conversations ensures that each partner can express themselves openly and respectfully. As partners learn more about each other and show understanding, commitment strengthens.
- Spending quality time together doing things both partners enjoy makes them felt closer to one another. Knowing that both parties are willing to take on this joint journey brings mutual satisfaction.
- Whether it’s exchanging sweet messages or exciting adventures, couples must keep up their romantic gesture as these are reminders of how much they care for each other.
- Developing common interests and values sustains connections among partners and makes them more resilient over time. This reinforces the foundation they have built where they can encourage and understand each other better.
