Interrupting can hinder the listening process from "summary" of The Lost Art of Listening, Third Edition by Michael P. Nichols,Martha B. Straus
When we interrupt someone while they are speaking, we are not only being rude, but we are also hindering the listening process. Interrupting sends the message that what the other person has to say is not important enough to wait for. It disrupts the flow of the conversation and can make the speaker feel disrespected and unheard. Interrupting can also prevent us from fully understanding what the other person is trying to communicate. When we are too focused on formulating our response or waiting for a chance to speak, we may miss important details or nuances in the speaker's message. This can lead to misunderstandings and miscommunication.
Furthermore, interrupting can cause the speaker to become defensive or shut down. When we constantly interrupt or talk over someone, they may feel frustrated or ignored, causing them to withdraw from the conversation or become less willing to share their thoughts and feelings. This can damage the relationship and hinder effective communication in the long run.
To be an effective listener, we must resist the urge to interrupt and instead focus on truly listening to what the other person is saying. This means giving them our full attention, showing empathy, and allowing them the space to express themselves without interruption. By practicing active listening and valuing the speaker's words, we can foster better communication, deeper connections, and stronger relationships.
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