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Setting boundaries is essential for selfcare from "summary" of The Longest Year by Victor Brooks
In life, we often find ourselves pulled in different directions, trying to meet the needs and expectations of those around us. It can be easy to lose sight of our own well-being in the process. This is where setting boundaries becomes crucial. By establishing clear limits on what we are willing and able to do, we create space for self-care. Boundaries are not about building walls or shutting people out. They are about creating a healthy balance between giving and receiving. When we set boundaries, we communicate our needs and limitations to others, allowing them to understand and respect our boundaries. This not only helps us avoid burnout and resentment but also fosters healthier relationships based on mutual understanding and respect. Setting boundaries is an act of self-compassion. It is a way of prioritizing our own well-being and making sure that we have the time and energy to take care of ourselves. Without boundaries, we risk spreading ourselves too thin, sacrificing our own needs for the sake of others, and ultimately jeopardizing our physical, emotional, and mental health. It is important to remember that setting boundaries is not a one-time event. It is an ongoing practice that requires self-awareness, assertiveness, and consistency. It may feel uncomfortable at first, especially if we are used to saying yes to everything and everyone. But over time, as we see the positive impact that boundaries have on our well-being, we will become more confident in asserting and upholding them.- Setting boundaries is an act of self-love. It is a way of honoring ourselves and our needs, of acknowledging that we deserve to be treated with respect and care. By establishing and maintaining boundaries, we create a foundation of self-care that allows us to thrive and flourish in all aspects of our lives.