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Being curious fosters deeper connections from "summary" of The Art of People by Dave Kerpen
Curiosity is a powerful tool when it comes to building deeper connections with others. When we show genuine interest in someone else's thoughts, feelings, and experiences, we are able to form a stronger bond with them. By asking questions and actively listening to the answers, we demonstrate that we value and respect the other person. This creates a sense of trust and openness in the relationship. When we are curious about someone, we are more likely to uncover common interests and shared experiences. This can lead to more meaningful conversations and interactions. By delving deeper into someone's story, we can learn more about who they are as a person and what matters to them. This shared understanding can help to strengthen the connection between us. Curiosity also allows us to see things from a different perspective. By asking questions and seeking to understand someone else's point of view, we can gain new insights and broaden our own horizons. This willingness to learn from others shows humility and a desire for growth, which can be very attractive qualities in a relationship. In addition, when we show curiosity towards others, we make them feel seen and heard. This validation of their experiences and emotions can create a sense of validation and affirmation. People appreciate being understood and appreciated, and by being curious about them, we can provide this sense of validation that deepens our connection with them.- Being curious about others is a powerful way to foster deeper connections. By showing genuine interest, asking questions, and actively listening, we can build trust, uncover common ground, gain new perspectives, and make others feel seen and heard. This curiosity allows us to form more meaningful relationships and create a stronger sense of connection with those around us.
