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Release the grip of fear from "summary" of Longing and Letting Go by Holly Hillgardner

When fear grips us tightly, it can feel as though we are trapped in a dark and suffocating prison. Our thoughts become consumed by worst-case scenarios, our hearts race with anxiety, and our bodies tense up in defense. We may try to avoid situations that trigger our fears, or we may act out in ways that only reinforce our sense of helplessness. In these moments, it can seem impossible to break free from fear's relentless hold on us. Yet, the key to releasing the grip of fear lies not in avoidance or resistance, but in courageous acceptance. When we allow ourselves to fully acknowledge our fears – to sit with them, to feel them, to explore their origins and their impact on our lives – we begin to loosen fear's tight hold on us. Instead of running from our fears, we turn towards them with compassion and curiosity, recognizing that they are a natural part of the human experience. In this process of facing our fears head-on, we discover that they are not as powerful or as insurmountable as they once seemed. We see that our fears are often rooted in past experiences or distorted beliefs, and that they do not define who we are or what we are capable of. As we shine the light of awareness on our fears, we start to see them for what they truly are – fleeting thoughts and emotions that come and go like passing clouds in the sky. With this newfound perspective, we find the courage to confront our fears with kindness and self-compassion. We learn to soothe our anxious minds, to calm our racing hearts, and to relax our tense bodies. We cultivate a sense of inner strength and resilience, knowing that we have the power to face whatever challenges may come our way. And in this process of releasing the grip of fear, we open ourselves up to a world of new possibilities and opportunities for growth and transformation.
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    Longing and Letting Go

    Holly Hillgardner

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