Foster open communication channels from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish

One way to create an environment where children feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings is to foster open communication channels. This means establishing a relationship with your child based on mutual respect and trust. Make an effort to listen actively when your child speaks, without interrupting or judging. Show genuine interest in what they have to say, even if it may seem trivial to you. By doing so, you are validating their emotions and experiences, which in turn encourages them to open up more in the future. Encourage your child to express themselves freely, without fear of retribution. Avoid criticizing or dismissing their thoughts, even if you disagree with them. Instead, try to understand where they are coming from and acknowledge their perspective. Create opportunities for your child to communicate with you regularly. This could be through scheduled family meetings, one-on-one conversations, or even sharing a journal where you can write to each other. By establishing these routines, you are showing your child that their thoughts and feelings are important to you. Model effective communication skills by being honest and respectful in your own interactions. Children learn by example, so demonstrating healthy communication habits will encourage them to do the same. By fostering open communication channels with your child, you are creating a safe space for them to express themselves freely. This not only strengthens your relationship with them but also helps them develop crucial communication skills that will benefit them throughout their lives.

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

Adele Faber

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