These games serve specific purposes for individuals from "summary" of Games People Play by Eric Berne, MD
The games we play in our daily interactions with others are not just idle pastimes. They serve a variety of specific purposes for individuals, whether we are consciously aware of it or not. These games can be seen as social transactions that fulfill certain psychological needs or desires within us. For example, some games may provide a sense of validation or ego boost for the players, allowing them to feel important or superior in some way. Others may serve as a means of seeking attention or affection from others, fulfilling a deep-seated need for connection and validation. Still, others may be used as a way to avoid intimacy or vulnerability, creating a barrier between oneself and others.
These games are not random or arbitrary; they are carefully chosen and executed to achieve a particular outcome or fulfill a specific psychological need. They are like scripts that we follow in our interactions with others, guiding our behavior and shaping our relationships.
By understanding the purposes that these games serve for individuals, we can gain insight into their motivations and behaviors. We can see beyond the surface level of social interactions and uncover the deeper psychological dynamics at play. This awareness can help us navigate our relationships more effectively and communicate more authentically with others.
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