Selflove is essential before loving others from "summary" of Everything I Know About Love by Dolly Alderton
The idea that you must love yourself before you can truly love someone else might seem like a cliché, but it holds a profound truth. It's not about being selfish or self-absorbed; it's about recognizing your worth and valuing yourself. When you can look in the mirror and genuinely love the person staring back at you, you are better equipped to love others in a healthy and fulfilling way. Self-love is not about being perfect or having it all together; it's about accepting yourself, flaws and all. It's about practicing self-care and setting boundaries to protect your well-being. When you prioritize your own happiness and fulfillment, you are able to show up as your best self in your relationships with others.
Without self-love, you may find yourself seeking validation and approval from others to fill a void within yourself. This can lead to unhealthy relationships and dependency on others for your own happiness. When you love yourself, you are complete on your own, and your relationships become a source of joy and growth rather than a crutch.
Self-love also involves forgiveness and compassion towards yourself. We all make mistakes and have shortcomings, but it's important to treat yourself with kindness and understanding. When you can forgive yourself and learn from your experiences, you can cultivate a deeper sense of self-love that radiates outwards towards others.
In the journey of self-discovery and growth, self-love is the foundation upon which all other relationships are built. It sets the tone for how you interact with the world and how you allow others to treat you. By nurturing a strong sense of self-love, you can create more meaningful and fulfilling connections with others based on mutual respect and understanding.
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